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Excelling teenager thanks drug-taking parents for showing her ‘life is unfair’

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01 Feb 2017

A teenager has written an open letter to her “drug-taking” parents to thank them for showing her “life is unfair, people disappoint you”


In her letter, the teenager writes about how she hid the truth about her home life until third of fourth year of high school.

But she overcame her difficulties and did well at school, developing a love of languages and travel, and has been on a “trip of a lifetime” to Uganda.

She says she is a Mormon and “trying to live a Christ-like life in a world which has increasing chaos”.

She said she sees her father often though has not seen her mother for a while, but dreams about a future involving both of them.

She wrote: “I hope one day that you’ll wake up and realise there is so much more the world has to offer you guys and when that day comes, please come to find me so we can enjoy life together.”

Miss Cameron said she hopes to inspire other people through her letter.

She told the Victoria Derbyshire programme on the BBC: “What I really hoped to do by sharing the letter was to allow people to know that they can choose positivity no matter the circumstances they’re in and choose to have joy in their life no matter what happens.

“Society sometimes tells you what your fate is, it tells you that if your parents live a certain way or you live a certain lifestyle that it’s destined that you live like that, and my hope is to show other young people that they can choose exactly how they want their life to be, they can choose joy and happiness and positivity no matter what the circumstances.”

She said she has had an incredible response from people contacting her about her letter, and dozens have posted supportive messages on her Facebook page.

She told the programme she stopped living with her parents at the age of 14, and lived with various family members and friends on the recommendation of social workers as her father was not able to care for her and her brother.

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