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new child 4 months 3 weeks ago #109394

Update

Met him second time now all smooth so far ex is very relaxed hopefully carries on

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new child 4 months 3 weeks ago #109404

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Thank you for the update, hopefully it will carry on smoothly :-)

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new child 4 months 3 weeks ago #109408

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Good to hear Lost. Keep on with it.

Good luck

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109475

One thing I've seen him twice and she's being really really forward like sending messages on his Roblox talking like it's from him and acting as if I've seen him for years. How should I handle it

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you mean your ex has via sons roblox account on the instant chat?

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109479

Lostinblac wrote: One thing I've seen him twice and she's being really really forward like sending messages on his Roblox talking like it's from him and acting as if I've seen him for years. How should I handle it


i think you should ignore it and focus on spending nice time with the child. don't think she's being malicious.

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109489

Oh no she's not being bad atall the opposite of what I'm use to tbh she's being mega mega friendly and over forward should I just go with it

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109498

hi,

yes just go along with it as shes being kind and supportive, and enjoy time with your son.

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109577

Hello chaps me again basically currently situation I'm sorta confused with it all I've met him 3 times and after the first time I was sent messages on a game he plays saying I love u so much and miss unso so much.

Thing is my ex said he can't spell or read well tbh so I think it's her writing messages to me.
Also she's really really pushy with stuff saying stuff like he adores me and he doesn't want to see my family now because he sees me lots of weird ass stuff back in the day this x was abit mad would follow me in her car weird shit obviously had sex got pregnant and I didn't see him to now. But all she does is slag off my other ex she's always hated her and is proper pushing him on me weird messages all the time saying I miss you so much and I know it's her because on person he's just a kid he's very spoilt and talks to her like shit really but all she does is slag off people and basically tell me everything about eberyone.

Thing is I still don't feel anything for him as bad as that is it's way to soon and her doing weird crazy creepy stuff doesn't help.

She also sent me a photo of his pillow she made and it had a photo of me and her from 8 years ago we hung around for a few weeks.
She also keeps saying he wants unto see his bedroom and wants all of us to go on holiday.

She's also purposely going at my other ex causing shit which tbh I don't care she's horrible but she's sorta acting like I'm on her side when tbh I'm not I couldn't care less about there pretty shit.

Basically it's weird all of it. I'm currently seein him with her there and I really want her to go soon

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109581

hi,

so sounds like she's using the child to pull you in to get back with her?? you mention she is there when you meet your son, how does she behave towards you?

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new child 4 months 2 weeks ago #109583

She's really odd overly friendly suggests random stuff that he says let's go on holidays ect I have not seen her in 8 years so it's all quite full on tbh I want her gone and just him but she said it's to soon

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new child 2 months 3 weeks ago #110438

Just got my daughter for the first time from the hospital.

The moment I lay her down on her crib she started crying so my wife breastfeed her. After feeding she started crying again so we feed her again then after that she cried again, so I checked her diapers and then burped her but she won't stop crying.

After feeding her again she stopped and went to sleep for a few hours..

All the while me and my wife are panicking because we both have no idea what to do, this is our first day alone with our daughter and we're already stressed out. Our house is a mess, we couldn't cook a meal because we keep watching our baby and I have to go work in a few hours without sleep and leaving my panicking wife alone with the baby.. I had to beg my mother to stay at our house to help my wife.

Holy hell... This is waaay harder than I thought it was. I have been searching the internet for tips and help, but I figured I rather have first hand tips from here than articles on google..

Also we couldn't figure out why we can't properly swaddle our baby even after watching dozens of YouTube videos, we feel so dumb.

Thanks.!

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