TOPIC: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER

Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21250

dont worry im not giving up.. i will fight...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21251

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Thats the spirit, you will win , it just shows how they are blocking contact

Was the mother of the mum in court ?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21253

no she was not

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21254

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so did the mum put her mother forward or was it just because you had already had this agreement

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21256

the judge said its not up to her.. and granted it even tho she said no...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21298

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was that no from the mum or mother
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21316

her mum said no and she said no.. but the judge ruled contact to be made there anyway...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21327

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Hi CBM

I would guess that your ex is doing all this in the hope that you go and do something stupid, because if you do, then she gains the upper hand in court. Whatever you do, consider how it would look if your ex presented it to court (and embellished it) and if there is any at all that would look negative on you, then don't do it. It is a slow process, but what you are doing now is the quickest you can get through it - anything against you could set you back months. Your job is to steer the courts towards an easy decision, and at the moment, your ex is helping them do this in your favour.
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21371

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They have now gone againts the judges ruling so this must be in your favour. KEEP CALM !! all will end well

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21389

I agree with what's been said, and as I've said from the start you're is continued to try and get a reaction from you, if you react she gets what she wants, the trick is to keep your head and the tricks she is trying will end up back firing on her.


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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21447

guys so happy today.. she did exactly what i wanted.. shes refused a direct order from the court no matter what her solicitor has said!

heres what happened..


i turned up at her mothers address as agreed in the contact order.. pressed the intercom and her mother said vinny your not coming in.. i just said ok cool.. and went straight to the police..

they said they could not attend and thought it was quite stupid of her to even denie me to see my son even tho a court order was in place...

i now have a full police statement to show to the judge and i will puch that she is charged with failing to comply with a court order.

very happy today its all starting to go in my favour! stupid bitch.. lol

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 9 months ago #21448

i think her plan was to keep me away so she can go to court to say i did not turn up.. her plan backfired as she shud of at least let me see him once then get solicitor to write letter explaining the situation was awkward and can contact be somwhere else.. very stupid girl and equally stupid solicitor.. lol

actd wrote: Hi CBM

I would guess that your ex is doing all this in the hope that you go and do something stupid, because if you do, then she gains the upper hand in court. Whatever you do, consider how it would look if your ex presented it to court (and embellished it) and if there is any at all that would look negative on you, then don't do it. It is a slow process, but what you are doing now is the quickest you can get through it - anything against you could set you back months. Your job is to steer the courts towards an easy decision, and at the moment, your ex is helping them do this in your favour.

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