TOPIC: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER

Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 2 days ago #21451

Hi CBM,

It would seem your playing the game a little :whistle: :whistle:

It seems to have worked though and you have handled it well, like you say she won't be able to say you didn't turn up at all and you have the police record to show you reported it, I guess you will also have the txt to say she went against it.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 2 days ago #21452

yes i have a voicemail from her, but need to get a court date pushed forward

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 2 days ago #21457

THIS IS WHAT IM FIGHTING FOR INCASE ANYONE WANTED TO SEE MY LITTLE MAN X

www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151103...51948&type=1&theater

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 2 days ago #21461

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aw so cute.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21864

COURT TOMORROW!!!!! LETS SEE HOW THIS GOES!!!!!

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21865

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Good luck CBM! :)

Your boy is beautiful....I can feel the love!

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Mum and Grandmother, supporting my son who has residency of his son.
I want to see a much fairer system in place, where Dads and their children have a voice that can be heard.
There are many groups of people that have equal rights within our society and its about time Dads were given equal rights too.

Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21869

CBM - I wish you all the luck in the world.

Really hoping for some more good news.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21983

bad news im afraid....

i now have a restraining order against me as she reported me to the police saying i have threatened to shoot her...

she has been spying on my watsapp profile and after the day when she refused me access at her mothers house i change my status saying.. you f**king b***h.. i asked for 1 hour in 4 mnths and you cudnt give me that.. also put a small icon of a girls head with a gun pointed at it.. she showed this in court and made me sign a agreement to not go near her call her harrass her or anything... as stupid as wot i did was it was not meant to actually be a threat to shoot her.. it was not sent to her or anything...


now its war.. i reported her for benefit fraud as shes rentin her spare room which is actually my sons bedroom to a frend of hers and shes also moved in her new bf...

im also concerned now if she loses her benefits can csa force me to pay more than my agreed csa amount?

i also got granted access but i need to arrange this threw her solicitor and joy of joys i have to pay for the contact center...

does this ever stop for fathers who just want to be a good dad? why am i sisttin here thinking of ways to get back at her for making me loose the most valuble memories ill ever have?

really mixed up.. really fed up.. its like theres no upside.. its just a women with a evil plan trying to make my life worse..

i know reporting her for benifit fraud will affect my son... its also wrong she is defrauding the likes of the good decent people in this world who pay tax why shud she be rewarded..

i want my son to live with me..


i know some of u might be angry at me for reporting her.. but its done.. she deserves wots coming to her now..

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21991

Hi CBM,

i also got granted access


The most important part of your last post. This is great news - all the rest is just stuff thats happened - get over it, move on.........

i also got granted access


Lets focus on the upside of the what happened in court.



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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #21998

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CBM...I dont think anyone will be angry with you....we are all pushed to our limit sometimes and do things we might regret later... Anger and bitterness are human emotions and you, like the rest of us, are only human!

If you are faced with this kind of thing in the future though, it might be a good idea to step back and wait for feelings to calm down before acting on it...Because as you acknowledge, it will most likely affect your son.

I am facing the same dilemma and the only thing stopping me now and in the past, is the fact that it will affect the child in the middle of it all.

Good luck CBM :)

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I want to see a much fairer system in place, where Dads and their children have a voice that can be heard.
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #22003

ok so i now need some help in finding a contact center and wud like some advice if i can fight the fact i have to pay for it..

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 6 years 11 months ago #22036

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Google should help with finding a local contact centre, otherwise try children's services.

I don't blame you for reporting her for benefit fraud - she's happy to use the law against you, she should be prepared to abide by those same laws.

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