so friday was court... and shes turned up with a solicitor... now i now the only way she can get one is through legal aid.. and the only way she can have a solicitor through legal aid is if there is any violence or threats so whatshe has done is try and say i have threatened to kidnap our child.. frikking joke this women is...
i now need a solicitor or a mack frend or something to fight this.. as doing this on my own is not working..
they have re issued the court order saying six sessions must be completed.. with a review court date in April..
i still have alot of unanswered issues... i wish to persue pressing charges against her for not complying with the order.. and also using tactics to delay and hinder my relationship with my son... how can i prove this tho??
getting in a right state.. and i appreciate u have seen me come aog way.. but to me i feel im getting further and further away from the end,....
Please if someone can please represent me or put me in the right direction of someone who can...
so 3 years on and I got to say things are no better than the first day she stopped me seeing him..
now after we made an agreement at court.
We agreed that she would not let our son out of her sight and she would not go to a contact center.. she agreed to let me see him every two weeks under her supervision.
this is not working as she chose to bring her bf.. now I don't care who is there but when im playing a game of where's daddy.. why is my son pointing at him???
so I said nothing carried on playing with my son.. but shes always watching and now her bf is also watching..
this is a joke??? im his father why am I being watched and supervised??? and now my sons dosnt even know who is father is???
I asked her nicely... and sent the message below..
Hi . Just wanted to check our schedule for visits with ????? for september. Are we still meeting this sunday ? I kno u said u was goin away soon ..Also i felt very uncomfortable meeting your partner i had no warning so im sorry if i was off. Can i please ask that my contact with ????? is just you me and ????? as we agreed. I really have been worrying about talking to you about this as i really dont want to argue or fight.
I got this back,,,
I'm away from Friday so I won't be back till 15th and my partner was present as I was with him getting my wedding dress and stuff for my wedding. Unfortunately if I am with him at the time of contact rather than cancel your visit he will be present. I won't be doing the next visit my mum will so I will keep you posted. Sorry you feel this way but the visitation is for you and ????? I don't feel that you interact with ????? or you don't play with him in the three hours you spent with ????? you was not consultant and you tried to intimidate me which I confronted you about so my partner is there for my benefit only. I will have someone present with me when you have contact. If you feel this isn't what you would want please feel free to take me back to court.
I replied with ok we will go back to court..
she then sent this...
Remember who I have with me is irrelevant as it is u who should be spending time with ?????. We are not a happy family and three hours you should be consistent with your time with ?????. Since the episode in the park where you had argued and refused to leave me alone and interact with ????? following my dislike towards your choice to be intouch with people who are in prison and since you being arrested for drugs I do not feel comfortable around you. When we go to court I will not denie you access but it will continue being supervised and I will have someone with me like my mum. I will keep a copy of these messages and take the previous ones to court. Please let me know when you have filed so I know when to expect my letter. I did email the court myself to go back to court but never recieved any reply. Visitation will continue with my mum on next visit
I want one thing.. to see my son without her watching.. and to make up my own mind who and what I do with my son...
how do you people do this?? what the hell are we fighting for???