TOPIC: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER

Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13219

That's ok, with no solicitor the legal team can advise you.

How are you feeling today mate?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13222

i want my life back.. i miss my gf i miss my son.. i want that family unit.. i was so stupid to have lost it.. dont think ill ever get over this...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13223

It may not feel like it now but you will, and going through this will shape you and make you a stronger more rounded person.


Did you manage to get an appointmant with the doctors?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13224

no they not open till monday

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13225

Well I'm about on and off throughout. This evening and overthrow weekend so feel free the talk away tell me what's on your mind or just idle chit cat

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13226

cheers darren... its a struggle.. everyday im in a state.. i miss them both.. i just wanna hold her tell her im sorry... and when i did that she just told me where to go told me she hated me... its all got so effed up...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13227

I'm sure it feels really bad,

I think what you need to do is focus on Alex and not his mum, you can't really control what happens between Alex's mum and you, but you can in what happens between you and Alex.

As he grows he will need you a father figure and a male influence, you can be that person but you may have to accept that you and his mum won't be together.

I'm sure she means a lot to you and I guess with the link you have she always will, but it finding the balance and being able to get on for Alex that counts.

Although she said some harsh things she did say you could see him (while she was calm) do you think she will let you see him at her home if you asked? I know it would be tough with her there but seeing your little boy will lift your mood and make it worth while.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13228

no she wont.. its all gone way past being civil

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13229

That's a shame,

Well we will get you the answers to your question,

I know it's been suggested but do u think mediation would work to get the 2 of you on the right track and talking again?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13230

yeh maybe.. the problems is ill do anything to make it work.. she wont...

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13231

Well try and broach the subject of mediation with her it would be a good start to getting things moving again,

I don't remember if you said you work or not, what do you do for a living?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 1 month ago #13232

yeh i work in cust service...

i dont wanna contact her its a bit too soon do u think i shud ask her now or ask her again in a few days..

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