TOPIC: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER

Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #14858

Your not a failure at all.

Please answer my private message so we can help you.

You can get through this but you are going to need some support,

Your not alone through this and help is ready and waiting, just take the steps that will help you get through this.

Darren

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #14861

i sent u my number darren

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #14976

Hope you were able to speak to Darren

I think many people have felt like you do at some time - the important thing to remember is that they all get through it.

It is not a failure to go to the doctors - just a sign of being stubborn if you dont!

Hope you are feeling better today

Hop

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15119

please can someone call me... i was speaking to someone about some support and i havent heard from them since..

ive just had a text from her asking for an address for me.. ive sent that to her.. i really need some help some legal help if possible please

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15120

Hi, its Chris, I will try and get in touch with you shortly. In the meantime, could you get all your questions together so we can make sure we know which expert to direct them to.

Thanks for getting in touch.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15121

yes im ready. pls call me at 9 if you can as im at work

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15295

still havent received the letter... im beginning to think she was just lying... should i send a text to her asking her where it is? i really wanna send somthing really nasty to her but im not going to.. ive learnt that dosnt work.. what does anyone suggest ?

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15296

Hi CBM,

Like I said the other day, she was possibly just trying to rattle/stall you, I wouldn't let it get to you, just be ready for the next thing she may try to get a reaction.

Your right in saying that sending her a crappy message won't get you anywhere it would only set you back.

You are becomming a lot more possitive about all this now which is great, don't allow her to get to you with the games.

If you need anything you have my number so drop me a txt or shout on here and we will help.

Darren

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15298

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Hi CBM

Whatever you do, don't react badly to anything she does - if you really have to send her a letter, text or email, before you send it - leave it for an hour or so, then go back to it and think what it would look like to a judge, and if you think it wouldn't look good, then re-word it and wait again until you are happy it won't land you in trouble. One good place to start feeling better about yourself is to realise that you can rise above anything your ex throws at you - it's very hard work, especially at first as lots of the guys on here will tell you, but it is worth it in the end. Keep in touch with all of us, and don't be worried about seeking as much support as you need.

Saw a good quote on facebook a couple of days ago - "when I'm cheerful and happy, my friends know who I am. When I'm down and depressed, I know who my friends are".

You are among friends here.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15311

wise words my friend... its just ridiculous why is she set on making my life miserable..

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15312

Hi CBM,

I would agree with Daren and actd.

Now start to concentrate on sorting yourself out and being the reasonable person.

As actd has said, it is important that you are very careful about what you say in letters, emails or texts, as sometimes they can be misinterpreted.

You are doing much better and we could not be prouder of you.. we are all here to support you, so do not hesitate to throw it our way when you need to.

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Re: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER 7 years 5 months ago #15313

im going to speak with chris on monday and get the ball rolling shes taking the piss now just making me miss out on his life.. theres no need for any of this.. why do women always use there children to get back at the father ??

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