A mother-of-four killed herself after losing custody of her children over false accusations she had sex with an underage boy.
Support worker Sheila Griffin, 36, had been acquitted of sex charges following a trial by jury, but three of her four children had already moved in with their father and she had to fight him for contact, an inquest heard.
After battling depression and following four attempted overdoses, Mrs Griffin, from Rochdale, Greater Manchester was found dead in bed by her grandmother.
In the run up to her death on October 15 last year she had complained of being let down by the system and had been admitted to a psychiatric hospital saying she had 'to get help to face her demons that she just couldn't fight alone.'
Two days before the tragedy she had been trying by text to arrange a visit to see her children at their home in Edinburgh.
The hearing was told Mrs Griffin was a 'good mum and a lovely person' and had enjoyed playing rugby in her teens. She was with husband Chris for 18 years having met him when she was just 14.
But after they split up, she was accused of sexual activity with a child in 2012. She had to face trial at Minshull Street Crown Court, Manchester, before being found not guilty in 2014.
Mrs Griffin's grandmother Sheila Noakes told the Heywood hearing: 'Sheila was a bubbly but passive person and had difficulties sticking up for herself.
The hearing was told Mrs Griffin was a 'good mum and a lovely person' and had enjoyed playing rugby in her teens.
In the run up to her death on October 15 last year she had complained of being let down by the system
'Her ex husband Chris had the children every other week but that contact and access was not an easy arrangement and Sheila had difficulties communicating with him.
'That deteriorated and he would not communicate with her at all. Then in 2012 allegations were made against Sheila for criminal activity. Although she was found not guilty, she could never talk about it.
'It also had an effect in terms of her family arrangements because around this time Chris was given temporary custody of the children. Chris got custody because the children had to be with him and it was not Sheila's fault.
'As a result of Chris getting full custody Sheila began to drink more and take painkillers.
'After that Sheila had difficulties maintaining contact with the children. Chris made it really hard for her. The most obvious trigger was when she had contact with her ex husband and she would go on a real downer.'
Mrs Noakes added: 'She couldn't talk about the allegations and couldn't bear us to talk about it. The fact she couldn't see her children and there was no cooperation from Chris, you have to cooperate when you have children.
'She could be very good at hiding what she was feeling as well. She didn't even get the chance to fight for her children.'
'In terms of Sheila's mental health during 2016 she attempted to take her own life on four occasions.
'I asked her why and she said it was because she was forced to speak to the children on the phone. The lack of contact with the kids really hit her hard.
'She loved her children very much, it was heartbreaking for her family and friends to see her trying to cope without having her children around her. She is very much missed by all of the family.'
After splitting with her husband, she was falsely accused of sexual activity with a child in 2012
Mrs Griffin's mother Debbie Brown told the hearing: 'The serious allegation made in relation to Sheila had a profound effect over the two years whilst criminal proceedings were on going. She was found not guilty but during this time there was arrangements made in relation to custody of Sheila's children.
'Chris had custody of the children and it was difficult in arranging visits to take place. I felt Chris was not as helpful or accommodating as he could be. He obstructed visitation if anything.
'During this time Sheila was very low in mood in part due to the difficulties in having contact with her children.
'She attempted suicide and reported feeling let down. She fought every day and she tried to fight for her children every day.'
Mrs Griffin was said to have first started showing signs of depression as a teenager and suffered post-natal depression after the birth of all four of her children.
In 2008, while working at Highfield Hospital in Rochdale, she fell and fractured her skull.
The accident left her with brain damage and epilepsy and meant she was required to take the painkillers to which she eventually became addicted.
Mrs Brown added: 'When I last saw Sheila we had a lovely day together. She was looking brilliant, smiling, buying things ready for the new accommodation she was hoping to move into. I had no idea she had any negative thoughts or was considering the possibility of taking her own life.
Two days before the tragedy she had been trying by text to arrange a visit to see her children at their home in Edinburgh
A verdict of suicide was ruled by the coroner
'She a was very creative and loved making costumes for the kids and painting with them. She also made the best carrot cake ever - she loved spending time with her kids.
'I'm devastated and heartbroken over the loss of Sheila. I feel she was let down many times she and the family were screaming for help but I feel we were not listened to. She was a good mum, a lovely person and loved her children very much. She tried to fight for her children every day.'
Dr David Rimmer, a consultant psychiatrist at the John Elliott unit of Birch Hill Hospital said: 'Whilst there's an ongoing risk of harming oneself there's only so much mental health services can do.
'I was aware of the criminal allegation and I know it was a major upset and a major trauma. The problem we have is we can be aware of things but what can we do about them? She didn't like talking about it in a way that possibly some form of counselling might have helped.'
Passing a conclusion of suicide, assistant coroner, Peter Sigee said: 'I'm satisfied Sheila acted with the intention of ending her own life. Please let me express my condolences and sympathies to all family and friends. I hope it may prove to be a stepping stone on the road to coming to terms with her death.'
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Very sad read obviously some behind the scenes issues shes struggled with for years and i suspect her husband witnessed.
14 years together only to be ignored but if she was awarded weekly access then she was being alienated and should of had immediate support to counteract it or steps to explain why sge cant see them.
The court systems rediculouse to access and exspensive and long.
Sadly alienation and mental abuse knows no gender.
4 children left without thier mother ...the system needs tearing down and rebuilding.
I've been accused of just about everything there is. I have threatened to murder children, kidnap children, pedophilia, abuse, neglect, physical violence against adults, beating children, domestic violence - even one of my family members was apparently a murderer and it was hereditary! The list is endless.
I understand how overwhelming things can get. We all (mothers and fathers) have to understand the impact that our decisions make on our children's lives. They are innocent - they don't deserve to be dragged into court battles that drag on for years. They don't deserve to see one of their parents dealing with what can only be described as hell, just so that the other parent benefits.
The family courts have no interest in our children. They are happy to see parents fighting tooth and nail, happy to drag things out for years, happy to ignore crimes made by one parent and happy to incriminate another when they are innocent.
They encourage false allegations because they are the bread and butter of their industry. That industry supports biased policies of government through a system of closed door hearings that destroy families.
Let's not forget all of the men who have committed suicide because of the tremendous pressure of being estranged from their children because of outright lies.
I hope the children of this mother find peace. I hope that anyone (including myself) in similar situations find the strength to keep fighting.