TOPIC: Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long

Re: Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long 7 years 4 months ago #36616

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Maybe I am too old/stupid/ simple/dim/dense but I can't for the life of me work out
what goes on in the head of my sons ex or of her family come to that.

There is so much more I could write about their attitude which beggars belief.
They don't have any feelings,it seems to me that they are totally devoid of any emotions.
What an environment for my grandchild to grow up in....

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Re: Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long 7 years 3 months ago #36755

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Kirsten wrote: Maybe I am too old/stupid/ simple/dim/dense but I can't for the life of me work out
what goes on in the head of my sons ex or of her family come to that.


Perhaps it's simply that you are reasonable and it's very difficult understand how someone else can think unreasonably. :)

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Re: Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long 7 years 3 months ago #36768

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To be honest....the more I read in this forum the more I question the motive behind some woman's
reasoning....
I have tried to understand her early in her pregnancy but there was no way that even a jackhammer
would have managed that task....
It's just so heartbreaking when my "older" 2 grandchildren ask me as they did today..."why can't xxxxxx be here?"
The grandchildren are 4.5 & 3.5 years old and miss their cousin desperately too.


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Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long 7 years 4 weeks ago #40163

I feel for both you , I'm going through the exact same thing that your son is going through its nearly exactly the same with my exs family pulling her strings over me and my mother seeing my daughter and the messages you said she sent your son are the same sort of messages that I get from my ex

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Mothers & Grandmothers story.....very long 7 years 4 weeks ago #40172

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Oh dear...
I find it so hard to stay calm....but my grandchild deserves better.
Although at the moment we see him regularly for a few hours a week, the mother
still goes off the rails on a frequent basis.
It's the insulting messages the mother sends to my son....sometimes I honestly
wonder if my grandchilds mother is from this planet....

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