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It's all over.... 5 years 6 months ago #59066

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Another awesome result :) :) :) :) :) :)

You'd be amazed how fast the bad stuff can be undone - knowing that she is living with you in a safe environment, and that nothing will change that - it will have a positive effect pretty much immediately. Believe me, I've been there, so this is spoken from experience.

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It's all over.... 5 years 6 months ago #59076

Thanks all for comments.

Thanks actd I hope so. Her mental mother has already started she's not been allowed to bring her stuff as she's been told she's not moving out but spending more time with Daddy! That woman is seriously deluded. The judge told her she was removing my daughter as she's at significant risk of emotional harm and she needs to reflect on her behaviour. I will forever regret getting in a relationship with a Narcissist! But now need to concentrate on minimising the damage for my kids.

Thanks again to everyone, this site has been a real Gem :)

J.

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It's all over.... 5 years 6 months ago #59159

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Yeah, my ex refused to let me go and collect my daughters stuff- they came out with what they could carry. I managed to get one or two more items out afterwards as my son stayed with my ex for a couple of weeks, but all that did was to make my ex look mean - I replaced anything that mattered so in the end, my ex just had an extra room that had to be cleared out on her own.

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It's all over.... 5 years 6 months ago #59238

Massive congratulations ....what a feeling it takes a while to sink in , I was awarded a CAO for my children to reside with me in Dec and I still don't think it's sunk in ,

one because it is hard to believe the Dad can get residency even in this day in age their is still so much bias opinions on fathers vs mothers - but here we are two dads that have been awarded our children because we are the best person to care for them , because their mothers cause them harm,

hard pill for society to swallow woman can harm their own children and do so often under the protection of being a woman ...sorry moan over

this is a celebration because as time goes on court will be more distance and life will settle and 'normal' family life resumed

My ex let the children come as they stood they looked like they were auditioning for Oliver no school uniform nothing - had to get everything while she is not allowed the children overnight but has kept all the sleepwear etc as she believes it's HER'S they are mental

my ex has since court even called the police as she felt a schedule and few text about the children's wellbeing and asking for how she wanted to contribute towards the children was too much for her and felt she was being controlled and bullied and sent the police round , good for them as when they left they felt so had over by her and her lies and congratulated me on safe guarding the children, their visit they said was just a heads up as they felt she had nothing to lose and could cause us trouble ...to be expected sadly

sorry writing an essay ...I guess these woman will always try and regain some control however they can not realising it's their children they are effecting but if they did realising that then we wouldn't be the ones now with care of them ...

Keep positive guys things are changing slowing but I do believe many more cases will be resolved on the case material not just the gender of the parents ,

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Started the Court process at the beginning of the year (2014) applied for full residency.

Acting as Litigant in person - Over the Moon
All my children now under one roof forever

Final Order Dec 2014 Full Residency to Father
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