Massive congratulations ....what a feeling it takes a while to sink in , I was awarded a CAO for my children to reside with me in Dec and I still don't think it's sunk in ,
one because it is hard to believe the Dad can get residency even in this day in age their is still so much bias opinions on fathers vs mothers - but here we are two dads that have been awarded our children because we are the best person to care for them , because their mothers cause them harm,
hard pill for society to swallow woman can harm their own children and do so often under the protection of being a woman ...sorry moan over
this is a celebration because as time goes on court will be more distance and life will settle and 'normal' family life resumed
My ex let the children come as they stood they looked like they were auditioning for Oliver no school uniform nothing - had to get everything while she is not allowed the children overnight but has kept all the sleepwear etc as she believes it's HER'S they are mental
my ex has since court even called the police as she felt a schedule and few text about the children's wellbeing and asking for how she wanted to contribute towards the children was too much for her and felt she was being controlled and bullied and sent the police round , good for them as when they left they felt so had over by her and her lies and congratulated me on safe guarding the children, their visit they said was just a heads up as they felt she had nothing to lose and could cause us trouble ...to be expected sadly
sorry writing an essay ...I guess these woman will always try and regain some control however they can not realising it's their children they are effecting but if they did realising that then we wouldn't be the ones now with care of them ...
Keep positive guys things are changing slowing but I do believe many more cases will be resolved on the case material not just the gender of the parents ,