Hi
Thanks for your advice.
My son is expressing interest and I think at 13 can legally have some say;he is 12 now).
I am going to see how his mind is made up as he has some good friends at mine (he plays rugby here and his friends would be at the same school).
His mother does not let him out and he doesn’t see friends at his mothers.
My youngest daughter(14) goes out all the time to see friends and is very independent.
If you have any particular bullet points that you thought helped in the decision they would be greatly appreciated
Many thanks