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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31516

Just a little update from me re: residence. After 5 years of legal wrangle (and approx £50k) my now ex has been granted FULL RESIDENCY of his daughter. HIs ex was "forced" into a corner... the child live with ME or her Dad!..... Ex didn't want her daughter living with me, so in a really perverse way, after 5 years of saying that he was a ar*sehole etc, she says in court that she will only let her daughter live with her Dad!!!!!..... BONZA!!....

It's hoped that now she only sees her mother in controlled circumstances (via social services) that she may be taken off the child protection register......

We have split up..... but we have done what we said we would do and that is live near each other, we live 5 mins away, so that our children by our respective relationships can see each other.

Is there an end in sight?

Keep plugging away peeps, it takes time, money, tears, it takes over your life......

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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31541

So what happens if you don't win - would you get some custody or is it all or nothing?

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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31546

I think there is a misunderstanding
I did win joint custody
I got 3 weekends a month and on the forth weekend I get a 3 hours
I get half the bank holidays and fathers day and birthdays

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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31548

That is a good "win"! I was just updating my situ as it was about residency!

Well Done! x

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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31607

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Glad you came back on here to update us, and just nice to see you on here. Hope you are ok :)

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Re: 50 50 shared residence 5 years 8 months ago #31615

thanks

glad you got residency.

my ex just rang me saying she gonna go back to court too reverse the order some how.

she only had a barrister doing all the talking paid for by legal aid.

a order by consent

so good luck to her

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