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wishes and feeling 6 year olds 6 years 5 months ago #46976

hi all

I have just had a Social services report posted to me 6 weeks after it had been completed, the problem in this report is that the social worker asked my twins who are six years of age, whether they liked seeing me, they said they didn't want to see me, personally i don't think it was a good idea asking these questions to the kids when they are so young especially when they were asked these questions in front of their mum, who is so against contact and completely hostile towards me.

the report started off when my ex has been brain washing my 3 year olds that every time they hurt them selves they say daddy hit me, which in turn my daughter said it at nursery and they notified the mother who in turn called SS, after there involvement she accused me of DV which led to a report on me which concluded that there was no evidence.

but then ticked the box of DV from parent

The report was very unfair and i have decided to complain about the report regarding asking my children that question and whether it should be in the report.

any one else feel this was unfair to record in the report.
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wishes and feeling 6 year olds 6 years 5 months ago #46982

This is unfair. I had a report and it was full of inaccuracies and damning towards me. When I challenged it I was told it cannot be changed! So I had them call again and a second report which noted my points in a small box on the last page was better but still bias towards the mother. I gave up and started compiling my own evidence... Keep calm and keep up the good work

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wishes and feeling 6 year olds 6 years 5 months ago #46990

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This is written by a very highly respected lady called Karen Woodall, her field of expertise is parental alienation.

www.karenwoodall.wordpress.com/2013/07/3...nt-after-separation/

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Mum and Grandmother, supporting my son who has residency of his son.
I want to see a much fairer system in place, where Dads and their children have a voice that can be heard.
There are many groups of people that have equal rights within our society and its about time Dads were given equal rights too.

wishes and feeling 6 year olds 6 years 5 months ago #47045

thanks for the reply in what way did you challenge them as i am in process of writing a complaint to as them to remove the comments.

and was it the same social worker who came to your house again or a different one

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