sorry If I seem whiney and moany I litrally have noone else to talk to have no family.
she says sunday only because then I can have my time with her spend time together and shes not there enough to go back and my ex twist stuff shes nuts and not a nice person. and because we lost our child through hospital negligence and had to fight to get her back shes more worried my eldest got used against us by the mum and made to say stuff it all got thrown out but it added to the point we almost lost her. I just feel so guilt ridden as my child has been used as a weapon from day one I love her to bits and it hurts reducing things when she wouldnt understand. my ex moans if I ask to increase and will proberly moan if I reduce she just doesnt like not being in control. I appreciate all your replys I just feel at a massive loss I just want us all to be happy and I want to make the right choice
also itll be a sunday every other weekend basically the new plan would be Sunday only then holidays half terms ect do a normal sunday plus a sleepover same with birthdays and xmas I'm gonna tell my daughter first then say to the ex she will either kick off and agree kick off and refuse contact and say take me to court. I just feel tight as fuck reducing contact and feel guilt ridden