Hi all. Hoping for some advice its quite a long story but i have twin boys one who is very poorly with a rare condition and the other at home with mum i have been resident with my son in hospital since January and me and the mum had a major falling out 3 weeks ago. Over a party which i said was irresponsible due to the high cases of covid in the area and putting my other son at risk and going against restrictions in place ..Since then i have been removed from accounts in the house and removed from the tenancy and shes listed herself as a single parent. And also made some allegations against me to which i dont know what they are yet i have been in hospital now for nearly 8mths looking after my poorly son. Can these genuinely false allegations get my son taken away from my care? I am on the birth certificate and have parental rights. Its not something i needed right now and feeling quite alone any advice welcome thank you
how exactly have you been irresponsible with covid restrictions? social services will probably investigate allegations. hopefully its petty nonsense and nothing comes of it. are you being allowed to see other child that lives with mum?
Hi Sorry I probably worded it wrong. My now ex partner had a party so i called her irresponsible due to the covid restrictions and putting my son at risk with people that are not in our social bubble. My son that im in hospital with has respiratory issues and immune compromised along with a rare condition so i cant risk been in a place where random people have been. Since then shes removed me from the property and the tenancy so im trying to find out if the son im in hospital with for the last 8mths can be taken away from me. Thanks for the reply
what is the situation of the property, is it council or private?
you could apply for an occupation order, for court to decide who can live there. would look pretty heartless on mother to make your sick child homeless.
Hi. Its a council property so unsure how shes managed to remove me of the tenancy as it was a joint tenancy and shes changed everything into her name im not interested in her as what happened was the icing on the cake. But obviously im worried what will happen when my son is ready for hospital discharge does he have to go back to mum and taken out of my care. My children are my world and would destroy me if that happened. My other son is at that house. So at the minute it feels like im getting kicked to the guttter
Also, have a word with the hospital - they will have some support services that may be able to assist - they are going to need to be sure that your son has proper facilities for his care before discharging him.