Free online course for separated parents
Forum - Ask questions. Get answers.
Free online course for separated parents | DAD BLOGS: Mrunal | Love songs for my children

Love songs for my children

“I came here with a load

but now it’s so much lighter since I met you,” crooned Chris Martin.

My four year old daughter in the back of the car started joining in only, instead of singing “Green eyes,” (the name of the song) she sang, “Brown eyes.”

“That’s because I’ve got brown eyes Daddy, “she chirruped happily from her car seat.

I smiled from ear to ear, “Indeed you do. Indeed you do.”


It was a beautiful moment. Now, I’m not a big Coldplay fan (a little tepid and not enough guitars) but Chris Martin is a wonderful song-smith and “Green eyes” is a wonderful love song. As I listened to the lyrics I realised that it could have been written about the love share with my little girl for she is “the rock upon which I stand” and “sea in which I swim.”

I may be a little musical but I’m no song writer. Any time I’ve tried to write melodies and lyrics they’ve come out either maudlin or cheesy. I’ll leave it up to the really talented guys but I would love to be able to write long songs to my children. Many have done just that. Arun is currently listening to David Bowie’s “Hunky Dory” album which includes the lovely little ditty “Kooks”. Frank and Nancy Sinatra famously sang a duet about their love and Ben Folds has pretty much written a whole album about his daughter.

Given that I don’t have the talent to pen a love song for my kids, it got me thinking. If Meri’s song is “Brown Eyes” what’s Arun’s song?

It didn’t take me long to come up with the answer. Soon after Arun was born we learnt that he had an extra-ordinary love of music. When he was about 1 year old Elbow were making it big with their hauntingly uplifting “One day like this.”

Guy Harvey sings “Holy cow I love your eyes, only now I see the light.”

And that’s it. As I gazed into my infant son’s eyes, Guy was telling me that me that my world was now spinning on a new axis; that all the darkness had fallen away from my world and there was a new, bright and inextinguishable pole star in my life.

So, Guy Harvey and Chris Martin: Thank you for doing what I cannot – putting a soundtrack to my love of my children.

Related entries

Too old for this

Too old for this

It was late on a Thursday evening and Rodger and I were walking up Upper Street in Islington, looking for a Thai restaurant. We were a little worse for wear   “You OK?” he asked looking at my awkward gait. “Yeah,” I said with that little inflection that indicated...

Too old for this

The big day

I could hear the rustling from the room next-door and glanced at my watch: 6:30 am. I groaned to myself but there was a certain inevitability about it   The kids bounded into our room moments later. “Is Uncle Steve here? Is he here?” They asked excitedly. “Yes,...

Too old for this

The big questions

I was walking home from school with my five year old daughter. As we approached our front door she looked up at me   “Daddy?” she asked in that tone of voice that all dads will recognise as a precursor to something that they’ve been pondering. “Yes?” I answered...

Latest entries

Positive parenting- what is it and how can I use it?

Positive parenting- what is it and how can I use it?

There are many parenting terms being coined these days, but positive parenting is an approach proven to work. It's also easy to adopt and benefits the whole family.   What is positive parenting?  In short, positive parenting means focussing on your child’s...

Kids’ gaming safety: what can parents do?

Kids’ gaming safety: what can parents do?

Keeping track of your child's online life can be challenging. Online video gaming poses difficulties for parents trying to monitor their child's activity. Gaming and gambling safety charity Ygam shared with us their tips for working with your kids to keep them safe:...

How to survive a holiday with a baby or toddler

How to survive a holiday with a baby or toddler

If the thought of a long trip with a wailing baby sends shivers down your spine, you're not the only one. But, before you baulk at the idea of travelling with a little one, check out our tips on surviving a holiday with a baby or toddler. The truth is that holidaying...

Pin It on Pinterest