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I have same issue. My ex is happy for the child to stay with their grandparents weekends and school holidays while I am working outside the UK. Total nights per year exceeds 104. However, CMS do not count time spent with grandparents. Upside is that I can speak to child when they are with grandparents. Impossible when they are the mother's house.
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