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I have recently become unemployed and have submitted a claim for JSA. My ex is demanding that I make payments upon receipt of these benefits but I am informed by more than one source that I am not legally obliged to pay maintenance whilst unemployed. Does anyone know if this is indeed the case?
I have never missed payments in the four years since separation whilst I have been in employment and have in fact overpaid to the tune of some £4,000.
I am also conscious that a large chunk of what I have paid over the years has not all been put my six year old daughter's way. I see clearly that my contributions have funded clothes, unnecessary home improvements, nights out etc. etc., all for the benefit of my ex who is continually crying "poor"...
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