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Please can someone help me I have been paying £200.00 per month for my daughter since 1999 and in 2009 I asked my ex if we could reduce the payments as I had moved to an area and changed jobs where I was getting less wages. She went to the CSA and they re-assessed me and said that my regular maintenance payments should be £126.00 per month but as we hadnt done it through them I now owed £20,000 arrears I proved to them that I had made regular monthly payments but they said these were a gift and I owed the arrears and they put an attachment of earnings order on me. My daughter will be 19 in October and I have just received another one saying that I have to carry on paying till July 2013 I range the CSA and told them the attachment was wrong and wanted to appeal it but they wont send me the forms. I have tried ICE and they cant help, I dont owe any arrears I dont want an attachment of order earnings on me and they wont remove it. I asked my ex to speak with the CSA and tell them we had a private arrangement but she wont what the [censored] am I supposed to do now.
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