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So basically ive recently began working self employed. Ex is under the impression that im earning a lot more than I am which is simply not true.
things have escalated and she has demanded I pay her 20% of earnings or she will make my life a misery such as reporting me for fraud.
im paying more than the csa amount and have spoken to them so not worried in that regard.
however ive just received a bill from the school for after school club fees for over two years ago which totals a significant amount.
i never used that service as i only have kids EOW which is court ordered. Those days she booked for her to work, according to the school website if fees aren’t payed then after two weeks clubs are stopped and payment is needed.
my question is how do they allow her to carry on booking for a whole year without payment (2023). How can they now send me the bill? With no previous notifications. I have court ordered days which show I wouldn’t use that service or have means to as I have no access to the booking system.
will I really be held liable for this?
there is a active police investigation now due to her blackmail and coercive behaviour but this just keeps getting worse. She’s slandered me all over social media and is involving the kids in all of this as she tells them I don’t pay so they can’t do certain activities. I do pay! What’s more is, I pay for clubs when they come here.
I just don’t know what to do but surely I cannot be liable for her childcare bill?
hi,
suggest you contact childcare people regarding the bill and explain that children’s s mother is liable. can send court order as proof. you should be having no conversations about money with her, as CMS have taken care of that.
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