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Ok, I wouldn't pay into a pension until you have secured financial order. The reason being is that monies in a pension will be considered as part of the financial negotiation... Quite quickly she may become entitled to 50% of it... Better to stick it under the mattress and protect your assets...
Or the value of your pension pot could be offset against the value of your house for example... However, pension contributions after separation but whilst still married are included in calculating the full marital assets pot.
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