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Hi Everyone,
Just a quickie, I have just received a letter from the CSA (my first). They have stated that my ex-partner whom I have two children with would like them to collect child maintenance on her behalf. My primary issue is that she has asked them to collect it for her with no attempt by herself to come to any agreement regarding payment - apparently if they collect it for her I am liable to pay and additional 20% fee to CSA for the privilege?
I have no issue regarding paying maintenance, but I do not see why I should pay 20% extra when my ex-partner who is seemingly frustrating the process. I have not spoken to CSA yet, but what is likely to happen should I mention that I am happy to pay the given amount directly to her should she provide Post Office/Bank account details? What will happen should she say that she refuses to provide me with these to enable payment? Surely this is not a fault of mine, and I should not be liable to pay the 20% still?
Kind thanks in advance.
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