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My son recently turned 18 and left school at 16 to join a course where he would work 4 days a week and attend collage to do an NVQ once a week, He didn't last on the course very long and started doing some on-off work.
I contacted the CSA and told them this and was told that his mother was still claiming Child benefit and they had him registered as in education. I was told by the very unhelpful lady at the csa that it is not their responsibility to chase for the info and I would need to report my son and his mother for falsely claiming benefits.
Surely this can't be correct? I have a good relationship with my son and support him financially outside of the payments I give his mother so don't see why I should continue to pay her.
I'm going to call them again and hopefully get someone more helpful but any advice would be great.
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