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I attended court on Friday with regards to my ongoing application for residency of our 2 children.
The court appearance, I think, went pretty will in my favour in regards of I have been granted permission to drugs test her and deep dive her medical records and have an independant medical assesment of her.
When I collected our children for the weekend later that afternoon my ex's step Father came out and tried to pass on a message from my ex. I told him to get her to email it to me and didnt let him pass the message on.
He went back in the house and came out with our children.
When he came out he had a bit of a pained look on his face and said "shake my hand, please shake my hand". At this point I did and told him that I knew he was in a difficult position and that he was a great Granddad. (He is a fantastic Granddad and loves our children dearly.
As we were shaking hands my ex Mother in law was at the door shouting at him to get back in the house.
Im left wondering what to make of this exchange given that my ex is making allegations of domestic abuse and violence about me which are untrue.
I should point out that my ex partner and our children have been staying with her Mother and step Father since she left with our children.
What do you make of this exchange?
Regards,
Dave
Hi does sound a bit odd but maybe he just wanted to be reassured you were ok with him, maybe its his way of saying he agrees with what you are doing , just keep a note of it
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