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In all seriousness obviously I never would!
But my god why are they just total control freaks?, Why do they make everything so awkward? Why is it o.k for them to keep your child away longer than they initially stated? Why is everything on there terms? God I despise my ex with a passion! How do you other fellas keep so cool?
Just some advice please on coping with the games
Thanks
It's really tough, but you have to rise above everything so you can hold hour head up high and know you didn't play along with the games.
I've always found that by not rising to the bait I won in different ways as my ex was always looking for an argument.
I learned to expect the worse so I was never surprised when it happened.
Do things the right way, try mediation and if that doesn't work then go through court, at the end of it all as long as you have managed to keep your cool most of the time you can stand and say you were the bigger person.
Darren
Text and phone blacklists helped me enormously. That and winning just about every court battle. 🙂
my advice....stay clam....at least in front of her...just pisses them off more...my ex had hung up more on me over the last 6 months than ever because ive stayed calm and when she realises she cant win the fight she just hangs up.....then i shout and call her for everything...then calm down.
i thought it was only my ex that was mental...they are worse than children when they dont get their own way...good luck...keep laughing or you will go insane.
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