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Ok so my OH is around 7months pregnant, and well the bedroom dept has been all but non-existent. Lastnight whilst getting comfy she commented on this and that because it can induce labour later, so the books say, we should start having [censored] more often! And because she feels distant it may bring us closer together.
So what sort of positions are we able to take on, I believe that missionary is going to be a no no!
So any pointers?
Ta
Every couple is different so you may need to experiment to find the position that you are both comfy with.
Don't worry about non existent [censored] though it gets worse once baby arrives...too tired etc.
Reckon you should be ok after a couple of years or so!!!!!!!!
Not too worried, ive had it twice in the last 8months, before the pregnancy we did have [censored] maybe 5 times a week on average as we are both quite sexually motivated and have a high hunger, just she doesnt have the energy nor the sexiness in her eyes.
For me she is still whom i fell for way back when!.
I told her lastnight and i think she felt a bit guilty and then she was the one that brought it up anyway, so im just helping and trying to make her feel more comfortable with it all.
Once the baby comes im sure it will be awhile before we are having [censored] again but we are good at communication so have aired our worries about it already.
For now im trying to determine what would be best for her, and how she would enjoy it the most.
Looks like for reading the net, all fours or the leap frog as its called is good.
Hi
It's great that you are able to talk about how you both feel. Some women do feel more sexy during pregnancy but others not so, it's different for everyone as Super Mario says. It really is a question of experimenting to see what suits. You may like to give these two positions a go though!
There are several positions for pregnant women that are both comfortable and safe. So if you haven't already tried them, go for it.
Position one: Woman on Top
Get your partner to lower herself onto you, either facing you or facing your feet.
Position two: The New Missionary Position
The classic missionary position obviously doesn't work with a bump, but this one does. Your partner should lie on her back, knees drawn back with her feet resting on your chest, or with her legs straight up and resting against you(a good hamstring stretch this one). You should kneel between your partners legs to enter her, so there is no weight on her stomach. She might find it more comfortable with a pillow under her bottom.
Hope this helps.
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