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Going through a bitter separation from my wife who has made it very difficult for me to see my daughter because she thinks that I am unfit to be with my child.
Raised my daughter for the past 4 years nearly until I left in April of this year and that was because my wife who I was a full time carer for didn't want to be with me any more.
So I accepted this and moved out which made me temporarily homeless until I got a property at the end of May, but by then we were no longer on speaking terms and she even made malicious calls to the letting agents not to take me on.
She also hacked my facebook, paypal, ebay and apple accounts in the process to cause unnecessary pain and delight, also adding she sent me abusive texts and saying the only time I will get to see my daughter is through a court.
I am going to court as we speak to see my daughter and she has filed a divorce petition against me stating that I was a alcoholic, took illegal drugs and was violent, which none was true.
I thought to myself why would anyone be so cruel and deceitful?
Why use a child as a weapon because there hatred has over come the feelings of the child?
Wonder what else she has been dishonest about over the past five years in truth, but does it really matter now? In truth no it doesn't but I will fight for my daughter all the way no matter how much I am hurting from not seeing my daughter who I love very much and miss so much.
Anyone else going through the same will understand where I am coming from and hope this message gives people the strength not to give up on there children no matter what.
Hi and welcome
Unfortunately, your situation is all to familiar on here - CCLC are not able to give advice on divorce, but you could contact the Citizens Advice Bureau if you need legal advice and don't have a solicitor.
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