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A friend of mine is with his fourth partner and it looks like that relationship is heading for the rock
But why are we structured to dislike and sometimes hate each other?
What is it that kills that thing in us we end up fighting and brawling without cease
What has God got to do with it? or is it just in our own making ?
Just our own making and unresolved issues points scoring I dont believe theres a god so nowt I can blame them for. In my case I got hoodwinked and blamed for a divorce so ex could keep her affiar secrect it then got worse when the throbber she was seeing moved in with her and then you could see her trying all sorts of tricks to get money etc from me I suspect he was the instigator behind it even seeing him in court last week discussing stuff about my daughter to the ex's solicotr got up my nose it was bad enough I lost a lot of things I;d worked to get but those can be replaced but the damage he's caused to my relationship with my child is one I wont get back and I'd love to smash him from 1 end of the street to the next...but that gets me nowhere apart from a good feeling for 5 mins.
Still I'll wait til my child is older as an adult and I've kept all the paperwork to prove me right revenge is best served cold they didnt like it at court last week as I'd stood up for myself and played them at their own game they certainly arent going to like it now I'm back in my childs life. By All means I'm not going to use my child as a weapon to score pointsa and aware of the damage it could do emmotonally but just giving them the court case and files and allowing them time to read it without making judgement will be the way forward.
There are a lot of cases where the parents do resolve matters and the kids get the best of both parents, and everyone gets on fine. However, you don't tend to hear of them on here, but I'll bet your children know of plenty at school.
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