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From a different thread:
Hi Orange man, think you are very very brave. The very concept of being at home all day surrounded by washing & cooking & cleaning in a constant cycle would drive me potty.
I've always done the washing, from when my wife and I moved in together. I've always thought it was a classic man job: it's very scientific, procedural, has clear rules, etc. These clothes requires this powder on this setting. Those require that powder on that setting.
I guess it comes from my circumstances. My wife was all "oh, just bung it in together - it'll be fine": the attitude of a normal height, normal shape woman who can just pop into Next/whatever and buy new clothes if she happens to put a white blouse in with new jeans. I bang my head on doorways and currently have three pairs of trousers that fit.
Now ironing... that's different! The wife does that: she can multi-task. She can iron and watch the telly. I can iron or watch the telly. I've tried to mix the two - it takes a whole show to iron a single shirt.
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