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if it's true 50/50, then no you don't pay, but CMS can be hard to persuade that it is 50/50, expecially if your ex happens to get child benefit, and then claims that she is the parent with care.
I wouldn't make a financial offer - the CMS can override anything like that (they can override a court order for child maintenance after 12 months). I would suggest that you might be better putting a lump sum into some sort of savings or trust, and then paying her voluntarily on a regular basis. Might be worth getting some professional financial advice on this.
All, is the such a thing as Emergency Financial Order? Or urgent financial order, I am financially destroyed but don’t know how to stop it?
Hi there
I’m no expert on the financial side of things, you could trying of the debt agencies such as the Money Advice Service.
www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk
There is such a thing as a debt relief order, here’s some info
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/debt-and-money/debt-solutions/debt-relief-orders/
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