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Hi all,
As a new member, and being new to 'forums' in general..i have no idea what help or advice this or any other site holds for me. However, ''needs must'' ..and i really need advice!
My problem is basically this;.. i have an estranged wife and a disabled daughter who are in need of home alterations. The building work to be undertaken is of a modest size and scope consisting of an ensuite bedroom extension. I am a fully qualified building and construction engineering technician (Bricklayer) who has 35 years experience in the building trade. I have the skills needed to construct the extension, and the contacts to employ the correct specialist professionals to complete the project ... however, The complication is that it is my daughters 'compensation award money' that is being spent on the building work and as so an independent ''deputy'' is in charge of allocating the funds to designated contractors. I have proven my worth and experience to the deputy with instances of past job completions and testimonials, i have also pointed out that by having me working for my daughter it would save her many £1,000s of pounds ..in the region of a 25% savings, but the deputy seems adamant that ''no family member'' can undertake the work. My question is Do i have any actionable recourse to save my daughter from being financially exploited?
Thank you in advance for any help you may offer
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