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[Solved] challangeing cpo from local authorities


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my local socialworkers have got a cpo on my new born.

i have not broken any laws,

how do i challange this?


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Can you give us a little more background as to why this has been done and what the situation is between you and the mother?


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...I'm not completely sure but I don't believe a CPO can be challenged as such....before getting to the stage of an order there would have been multidisciplinary meetings and a child protection plan formulated.... They would have communicated their intention to you, if they didn't then I think that you will need a solicitor to argue that. This isn't something that I would advise you fight without professional assistance.

As actd say a little more information would help but remember to remain as anonymous, no names etc.


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HI,
MYSELF AND THE MOTHER HAVE BEEN STOPPED COMMUNICATING, AS I BROKE A CONTRACT WRITTEN BY THE L.A.

I WAS IN A FULL RELATIONSHIP UP UNTIL THIS.

THEY ASKED ME NOT TO GO TO THE HOME WHEN THE CHILDREN ARE THERE,I ASKED THE S.W OVER THE NEXT 8-9 WEEKS IF SHE COULD ARRANGE FOR ME TO COLLECT MY BELONGINS.
THIS NEVER HAPPENED,SO I MET MY PARTNER IN ASDA AND WHEN SHE LEFT TO COLLECT THE KIDS FROM SCHOOL I WENT INTO COLLECT MY STUFF.

AS I WAS DOING THIS SHE RETURNED FROM SCHOOL,I THEN PANICED AND WENT AND HIDE IN THE LOFT,UNTIL IT WAS SAFE TO GET OUT WITH OUT THE KIDS NOTICEING ME.

AFTER ABOUT 5-6 MINS,THE POLICE TURNED UP,THE FOUND ME ANDI WAS TAKEN TO THE TRAIN STATION AND RETURNED HOME TO NORFOLK.

THEY TRYED (AND ARE STILL) TO REMOVE THE KIDS DUE TO MY PARTNERS PAST OF VIOLENT RELATIONSHIPS,AND MY MEDICAIL PAST,AS WELL AS THE ACCUSATIONS FROM MY DAUGHTER BACK IN 2007,OF ABUSE.

WITCH I FOUND OUT IN COURT IN 2007 AND AGAIN ON THE FACT FINDING(THIS ONE) THAT SHE WAS DIONG IT AS MY EX WIFE HAD NO BOND WITH MY OLDER DAUGHTER,AND WANTED MUM TO HERSEKF,I ALSO FOUND OUT THIS TIME THAT MY DAUGHTER HAD ACCUSED ME OF THIS 4 TIMES IN THE THE LEAD UPTO ME GOING TO COURT !!

AFTER THE COURT WAS DONE, I WAS FOUND NOT GUILTY OF ALL ACCUSATIONS, AND GOT MY OTHER TWO DAUGHTERS BACK.
MY 11 YR OLD CAME TO LIVE WITH ME ON 24/2/2010 WHEN HER MUM THRO HER OUT!!
MY OTHER DAUGHTER 9, CAME STAYED WEEKENDS.
THIS WAS HOW IT WAS UP UNTIL I HAD A NEW BABY WITH MY NEW PARTNER.

MY PATNER AND I GOT TOGETHER IN 2011, SHE HAS HER OWN CHILDREN 3 GIRLS,( NOW 4) AND A BOY,.
WHILST THE CHILDREN WERE GETTING READY FOR GOING OUT ,THE THEN BABY,WAS LAYING ON THE FLOOR,N I WAS WHATCHING HER WHEN THE 3 YEAR OLD CAME RUNNING OVER TOWARDS THE BABY ON THE FLOOR,I PUT MY ARM OUT TO STOP HER STEPPING ON THE BABY, \( FORGETTING THE [censored] IN MY HAND !!! ) SHE RUN INTO MY [censored],N IT BUNT HER ON THE BELLY BUTTON,SCHOOL CALLED THE CP AND POLICE AND A S.W CAME TO THE FLAT,I WALKED INTO THE KITCHEN AS THIS WAY MY PARTNER N ME COULD NOT HEAR WHAT EACH ONE WAS SAYING.
#THE OFFICER CAME IN AND ASKED ME QUESTIONS.
THE CHILD WAS TAKEN TO A MEDICAL EXAME.
THEY WERE IN AGREEMENT IT WAS A ACCEDENT.

THE NEXT DAY OR TO THE SW CALLED MY PARTNER,ASKED ME TO LEAVE THE HOME FOR TWO WEELS WHILST THE DONE ,THAT WAS OVER 3 NEARLY FOUR YEARS AGO.

WE HAD A NEW BABY IN APRIL,AND THE HAVE PUT ALL THE CHILDREN ON THE CP REGISTER "SEXUAL ABUSE" AND "NEGLECT" IS WHAT THEY ARE TITLED IT UNDER ,YET I HAVE NOT SEXAULY ABUSED OR NEGLECTED ANY ONE.

WE HAVE BEEN THRO THE FACT FINDING, THEY STILL WANT TO REMOVE THE CHILDREN!!

THE INSIDENT WERE MY DAUGHTER ACCUSED ME WAS NOT FOUND.

YET THE JUDGE HAS USED AN INSIDENT BACK IN 1999 WHEN MY PARTNER WAS 12-13,WERE ALL THE FAMILIY WERE IN THE POOL WHEN I WAS THROWING HER IN THE POOL,PLAYING AROUND.
WERE SHE SAYS "I HAD HER BY HER RIBs..." THE JUDGE HAS WRITEN IN YHE FINDIND THAT I USED THIS TO GROPE HER BREASTS!!!
N O WHERE IN ANY STATEMENT WRITTEN OR VERBAL IS THERE ANY THING LIKE THIS!

HE HAS DECIED TO PUT THAT IN.
HE ALSO SAYS BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN OF MY MEDICATION FOR 8 YEARS NOW THAT I AM UNSTABLE!! YET THE COURT APPOINTED DR THAT DONE A ASSESMENT ON ME SAID THAT I SHOULD NOT OF BEEN ON THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE,AND THAT I HAVE ADHD AND HYPERATIVE,AND A BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER!!

MY GP SAYS THAT I HAVE DO GOOD TO LEARN HOW TO COPE WITH THEM,AS I LET THEM OUT WHEN I MESS ABOUT WITH PEOPLE,N KIDS, RATHER THAN SUPRESS THEM!!
AGAIN THEY ARE SAYING I AM UNSTABLE...AND THERE FORE A DANGER.
I HAVE A PAPER TRAIL OF EMAIL WERE THE L.A WONT COMUNICATE ATE ALL WITH ME OR MY TEAM.

MY BABY STILL HAS NOT MET ANY OF "MY FAMILY" YET THIS WAS MEANT TO BE DONE SINCEAPRIL,AND MY OTHER DAUGHTER ARE GOIN MAD AT ME!!

YET ALL MY PARTNERS LOT HAVE??

WHAT CAN I DO?

I AM IN COURT ON THE 29TH AND APPARENTLY AGAIN ON 13/12.2013..FORCARE PROCEDURES!!!

IS THERE ANYONE OR THING I CAN DO?


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