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Hi, got my forms to do contact order and seek and find order, can anyone offer me advice on what my bitter ex will do to block me having contact ,and what i should look out for or what questions the judge/panel will ask from me ? thanks.
Hi there 🙂
have you had a look at the guide to filling in the C100 contact order?
As your children are 13 and 15 they will be asked what their wishes are. As you went to college and your daughter refused to see you, it may be that she will continue with that when asked again by CAFCASS, who do the reports for court. They will want to talk to you too and the mother and then they will report back to the judge.
However if there is no reason for their attitude towards you other than their mothers influence, the judge might rule that you could have supervised contact....I'm afraid its a suck it and see situation.
Yuor ex may lie about why she doesnt want contact, she may say the children dont want it...just be honest and speak from the heart. The courts are aware of the negative influences that a resident parent can use to turn the children against the non resident parent....they see it all the time and they are pretty good at getting to the truth, although it may take some time.
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