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i am looking for some advice, last april i had an assessment done and was given a nil figure to pay my ex partner. In december i was informed my ex partner had appealed and had asked to be taken out of the csa process on the grounds of my wifes wages. She won the appeal and now i have to pay £200 a month, they also say i now owe £1600 in arrears as they will be back dating the money to last april. They have sent me a letter saying i have to pay £421 a month until i have paided the arrears off. After telling me i owe nothing and now saying i owe £1600 Surely i should be able to decide when i can pay it back. I have rang them and told them i cant afford the £421 a month and they said i have to pay the arrears off in 9mths and therefore cant pay it back how i like. Is there anywhere i can get advice on this. everytime i ring i get a different answer and how can you suddenly go from nil to £200 a month. Is it not right that because they caused the arrears then i should be allowed to pay off what i like as long as i am paying something?
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