Dear Hunt1234,
Thank you for contacting the Children’s Legal Centre.
You stated in one of your posts that the order prohibiting your ex wife from applying to the CSA is actually a consent order.
If this is correct then your ex partner is able to apply to the CSA after that order has been in place for 12 months or more, and you should have been advised on this by your legal representation at the time.
This may also be the case with an order put in place purely by the court that is not a consent order.
This does mean that the mother has not breached the court order by contacting the CSA and they are able to look into the matter as they would with any other case.
With regards to finding out whether your ex partner is on benefits, this would be something for the CSA to undertake when making the calculation on what maintenance you are liable to pay.
You are able to contact a solicitor regarding this matter if you wish, but it is unlikely to resolve this matter or have the CSA uninvolved as the court will often refuse to look at maintenance issues where the CSA have become involved unless there are exceptional circumstances.
If you wish to speak with a solicitor, you can see whether you are eligible for legal aid using the online calculator; http://www.communitylegaladvice.org.uk/ ... ution=e1s1
If you are not eligible for legal aid, you may be able to get a set period of time, usually 30 minutes, of free advice depending on the solicitor you choose to use. Following this you would be required to pay privately for any legal assistance you receive.
With regards to contact, the mother is obligated to give you any contact as stated in a contact order granted by the court. If there is a contact order in place and she is not doing this, then the mother would be in breach of that order and you are able to apply to court for enforcement of it.
If there is not a contact order in place, then the person who has the children physically residing with them is able to decide what contact they have with others, including the other parent, as contact is not a parents right, it is the children’s and until they are able to decide on this matter for themselves (absolutely at 16 years old, but possibly younger depending on their maturity) it is for the adult that they are living with to decide what is in their best interests.
If there is no court order in place and you are not happy with the contact that you are receiving, the first option is to attempt mediation to try and reach an agreement with the mother. The contact number for National Family Mediation is 01392 271610.
Should mediation be unsuccessful or the mother refuses to attend, you would have the option of making an application to court for a contact order. This would be a legally binding order stating the days and times the children are to see you.
The court would hear all the circumstances and would decide based on what is thought best for the children what contact is appropriate.
To apply to court, you are able to use a solicitor or represent yourself, whichever you prefer. You are able to see whether you qualify for legal aid in the way stated above.
We hope this information is useful to you. Should you require further advice please contact our Child Law Advice Line on 0808 8020 008 and an advisor will be happy to help you.
Kind Regards
Children’s Legal Centre