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I have to make the financial disclosure for the settlement. I have bank statements showing the total amount of my monthly income being paid into the bank. Will I have to provide wage slips? I am not worried about the total amount – I am happy to disclose, but on my wage slip the total is broken down into my wage and an allowance for my children. I am worried that my ex, and her solicitor, will use the allowance figures stated on the slip as the basis for what I have to pay. The problem being that the allowance accounts for a significant part of my net wage and I could not afford to give it to her.
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