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just preparing qustions for the fact finding
in her statement she has always pleaded she was kicked out of the house
howver now states she fled . .clearly there is a difference, and makes a difference to the type of people we are, whats the best way to question her on this?
Also do you think its a good idea to put this in?
Timeilne of events were:
Feb 2008 – You came to live with me and already suffering abuse
May 2008 – You were pregnant
July 2008 – Left the famiy home, pleading DV
Jan 2009 – Gave birth
Feb 2009 – Filed for divorce
Sept 2009 came off Anti-depressants
Jan 2010 – Starting dating again
For someone who alleges to have suffered severe domestic violence, it only took you a year and a half after you left, to be able to trust another man and start dating, how is that so if your allegations were true.
I know what you are saying, and it probably has some truth to it. But the timeline of events is not proof for a court or anything like a court.
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