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hey again. im due to see my solicitor again soon after ANOTHER 7 months of assing about
ive posted here before so in a nutshell...
ex with mental health issues wanted baby
i said no
she pretended she was on pill, got pregnant
both of us went homeless to save its life (her patrents said kill it or get out)
i got her parents to accept things, she went home, i returned to my parents (fetus was 16 weeks old)
never heard from her again. txts unanswered, phonecalls were answered by her mum saying if i call again she will call the police saying its horassment
contacted solicitors
7 month later i saw the ex for the first time in court. they gave me pr and the aggreement was i see my daughter once a fortnite with the mother there until i take a parenting course
didnt do the course because me and the ex got back togaether and she told me it was her parents forcing her to do it and that she is so sorry
me n her broke up after every time i stayed over and her parents wanted to come round i had to hide outside. final time for 7 hours in the rain (shed moved out and i helped decorate her house)
i wanted her to come to mine and my parents house again (we did it almost once a fortnite) but she said no because my daughter will be talking soon and mite tell her mam n dad. my mam and dad STILL have her xmas prezzies here and havent seen her since november 2010
last time i saw her was the day of the tsunami (cant remember the date but i remember it on the radio .. the past 6 times my ex made my daughter stressed and cry just by her actions so i told her i refuse to put her thru it and ill take her back to court. she said if i take her to court again she will jump under a train with my daughter because she will loose her family
i gave her one more chance about a month later, arranged to see my daughter in 2 weeks (the ex said she was busy)
2 weeks later i called to see if everything was still on. she said no , we have moved to scotland. i said where and she said its none of my business.
solicitors contacted
NOW 7 months later! i have an appointment to solicitors. familys talking said jesus this is defo a job for court.
My questions
1: will she get her [censored] kicked for this (she better do)
2: has she breached a court order since i am initially alowed once a fortnite? if so what are the pelenties?
3: since she is in scotland now (i think) do you think the judge will be fine with me saying i want my daughter in england with her daddy, nanna, grandad and sis once a month for the weekend?
* just so you know, no criminal record, no violence in the relationship (first time in court she told the judge i was violent and abusive (my jaw dropped!! then the judge said explain and she crapped herself. she told him id shouted at her once ) and i have old emails saved of her telling me im a great dad and its her parents forcing her to do it just because they think she doesnt need a dad and that she is so sorry can we please get back together and shell stand up to them
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