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Just joined the forum hoping to gets some help really.
I have 2 children (10 & 6) which I pay child support to via a mutual agreement with an ex partner and I see them 3 times a week and have them overnight for 1 night a week - I have recently split from my new girlfriend and she has applied to the CSA even thought I pay her money every month without fail for my youngest daughter ( 5 months) . I'm currently paying out 25% of my wages to support my children which I have no problem doing.
However, The CSA have just contacted me about setting up an agreement for my youngest daughter even though I have been paying regular every month without fail but they have said they need to contact my work for an attachment of earnings to work out how much I should be paying but they will not take into consideration that I am already paying child support for 2 other children via a mutual agreement as that does not go throughout the CSA..
Surely this is not fair in the slightest - Why do they not they not take into consideration that i'm already paying out 25% of my wage in child support - I have my own bills and my own house to run as well.....
This is going to send me under as I can barely afford to live as it is
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