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Hi,
my wife got married to me for the visa-as I find out only now 🙁 So she got a pregnant ,child was born, now she got a visa for 5 years she spend a lot of our money ,apply for divors and gone some where with the baby and left me with nothing-only with debs loans and credit cards
Same time I was very good father and husband-but any way looks its not her plan..:(
Can you please some one tell me-can I win in the court if will proof what she done to me and take the child for me??
Hi
First off, I have moved this to it's own thread so it's not lost within the wrong topic.
When you say that she maried you for the Visa, do you have any proof of this, or is it just something she's said? The problem is that if it's something she's said, then it's not going to be worth pursuing this line.
However, the first problem you have is where she has gone. Does she have any contacts over here, or any means of income?
Hi Smith,
Welcome to the forum.
As per actd's questions but also, failing that: If you want to know where to find your child, you will need to complete a C4 (seek and locate form) and file it in to your local court with the appropriate fee.
Thank you very much,I will tell my solisetors to do this form C4.
We just had a first court and so far for no reason court allow me see my child only for 1 hour per week and its in some special place and its unknown when it will first happen!
I know that only court know where they live now.
Just not sure what I can do on second court hearing?
King regards
Hi,thank you very mach for your replay to me,
No she never told me that she got marred to me for visa but,i am can prof that it and i have lots of information that she planed to do it,also witnesses,and the way how she done it!
We just had a first court and so far, for no reason court allow me see my child only for 1 hour per week and its in some special place and its unknown when it will first happen!
I know that only court know where they live now.
She do not have any income except the council benefits,and I do sending some amount to her ACC.
On my side I have Two bed flat,income,good experience to be a main parent,good recommendations from church,job, friends who know us for 3 years,from hospitals-doctors, nurses who know me well as I been before a main parent from my previous marredge where child was born ill and in who years old die due a diesice,good recommendations from my previous wife as well (as we bin devours with no problems) .
Just not sure what I can do on second court hearing?
And can I win The court in this case?
I want to stay with my child!
Or what she got visa,child(child is British),dump me with big debs, getting devours,and court will give her green light???
Maby I have to inform home office?Can you imagine if every one will do that and heaving no problems from court!??
King regards
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