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hi ther new to this forum, but same problem. wife wont let me see my children. I have been seeing them since last month but suddenly she has stopped them both under 12. I was seeing them twice in a week for a few hours, but not any more no reason given. We just had mutual agreement that as long as i can see them i wont take any steps. But now do i go to court, mediation, my biggest fear is as i have been feeling she has been brainwashing my kids and turning them against me. What if the kids say we dont want to see u dad?They were living in a nice country side house which was paying the mortgage for she has moved them without telling the csa, what can i do the csa is only interested in taking money from me? A nd she wont giv me the key to the house she was in which is in my name and am still paying th mortgage property is being ruined. help anybody out there, hello. thanks. never give up man everything is here to test us.
Hi zidan and welcome
If you have any chance to talk to your ex, I would tell her that you want to go to mediation to try to come to an agreement if possible without the need to go court.
You would need to see a solicitor about the property as this is a separate issue.
Do you know what has happened to bring on this sudden change?
thank u for the reply. She says kids are suddenly scared of me for what reason i dont know, she is wanting a divorce but without any commitment to me being able to see the children. She thinks, i think that she will get hold of the property , which is in my name as soon as the divorce is done, but i want the children contact sorted, then the property and then divorce which i think is logical. She constantly has been trying to aggrevate me and has used the children as a tool. thnx for listening.
I would speak to a solicitor. I don't think you have much control over the order - if she applies for a divorce, there's not much you can do to delay that so you need to sort the whole out at the same time.
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