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Hi, My ex partner has moved away a month ago and will not let us know where she has moved.
Not seen my daughter in over a yr as ex stopped contact. She is 6 yrs old and been through [censored] and back trying to get access, ex lets us have access for a while then stops it for about a yr then lets us again and stops. Since a yr last Sept been writing asking for contact. I recieved an email from her mother saying her daughter had moved away and taken the chidlren (she has 4 by 3 different dads) I asked where they had moved to but was told to send birthday and christmas presents to the mother who would forward them on to her daughter to give to her. I said this was not acceptable.
So do not know where they have moved to. Been told by a friend she has moved about 250 away and got name of town but not sure she is there.
Today as she is on facebook l emailed her to ask if l could speak to my daughter by skype once a fortnight, and again to ask for their address. the reply l have just got is
' Must say a very amusing read!! I am seriously starting to think you believe your own lies!! You get in touch again and I will be contacting the police!! You are harassing me!!!! Haha!! '
My name is on the birth certificate and l do have PR.
thanks
Hi
As you need to go to court to get this order, I'd say that you should be applying for contact at the same time as mediation doesn't seem like it's going to be an option. Have a read of yoji's guide to representing yourself at the top of the legal eagle section, and decide whether you want to represent yourself (in which case we can ask the CCLC for legal advice) or to go through a solicitor (which could work out very expensive - especially with the distance involved)
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