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Hi there
Can any one help me please. The courts will not give me PR with any prohibited steps or any contact whatsoever to my child and even issued a barring order against me for 3 years to give the case a rest. I have no status as father whatsoever.
Why, because mother does not want me involved and she has poisoned my son against me - he is 11 years old and i have met him for x8 minutes only in his whole life as mother hid him from me for 10 years until she wanted child maintenance.
No safe guarding issues whatsoever as per Cafcass report and Cafcass cannot rule out Parental Alienation by the mother as per there report suggests which was given to the judge.
Oh, and to make matters worse, at Court mothers boyfriend was given PR when they have only been together for 1 year.
Plus, now mother wants her boyfriend to adopt my son and there is nothing i can do about it as i do not have PR, even told the Court her motive and they asked her and she said no and they believed it !!!!!!!!!!
My son, no doubt thinks i am the bad one for taking mother to Court to see him, when all i want to do is be his father emotionally and financially at his respected pace.
Can any one advice any help 🙂
Best wishes guys
How long ago did the court make the decision to bar you Shaun? If it was less than 3 weeks ago you can appeal.
When a father has not had any kind of relationship with his child and many years have passed its always a very difficult call, regardless of where the blame lies. It is the child's feelings that are important and the feelings of the parents are not taken into account. If your son has expressed the wish not to see you then that will be listened to.
The only thing that could be open to you as I mentioned would be an appeal, timeframe allowing.
I am so incredibly sorry that you find yourself in this position and it must be very distressing for you. I can only say that many children when they are old enough will seek their missing parent out....this may not be any consolation for you at the moment but it might help you to hold out a little hope for the future.
Have a look around this blog belonging to Karen Woodall....she is a recognized expert in separated families and parental alienation.
www.karenwoodall.wordpress.com
sorry for the late post nanny jane.
the court order was in February so to late for appeal.
i have tried everything.
i will now have to wait until he votes with his feet
thanks for all your help and posts
best
shauh
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