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HI Just reading the above messages thank you.
MY situation
My ex an old flame basically used me to get pregnant and does not want a relationship. She is happy to live with her mum. She wants me to keep in touch, when I do she won't answer my questions on how the unborn baby is etc she just keeps asking for money. My Ex is very well off. I run a radio station that offers help to many people across the world and survive on donations. I have spoke to many people who basically state " LEAVE HER BE AND SHE WILL CONTACT ME" She is doing everything to make me out to be a nasty person, she twists everything I say and manipulates all situations to make out she is the victim.
ANY ADVICE PLEASE WOULD BE MOST WELCOME , AND THANK YOU FOR READING THE ABOVE.
Peace
Paul
Hi
I've moved your post here, hopefully you'll get some replies as this is a much busier section!
It's a tricky one - at the moment you have no rights at all with regards to the situation, but you also are not obliged to give her any money - only when the baby is born do you start to have those (and also the responsibility of maintenance).
For now, I think it might be worth reading TeacherUK's post in the blogs.
Advice needed...and also a request!
That is the title of your topic too which has responses , it can be found on page 2 in this section.
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