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Just wanted to let everyone know that due to a bar report that is full of false and inaccurate information it has recommended that contact cease.
I'm not sure. I'm going to take this all the way though.
The bar reporter has not done his job correctly. The amount of false information is amazing.
Im so sorry this is very heart breaking for you. You have tried so hard, appeal and give it one last shot, the world is so unfair .
...This is a terrible for you Brd...I feel sorry and angry all at the same time...
Its not over yet and I know you will put your heart and soul into fighting this as you have done from the start. We are all behind you and here for you x
Sadly I won't be commenting any more on the case on here. Did you know it makes me come across as obsessive with my son?
A lot and I mean a LOT of lies and false information has been given to the reporter about me and as a result I am deemed mentally messed up. Therefore I need to undergo an assessment which I am 1000000% confident in.
A court has taken someone's father away from them today. In their mind it was right, but I am sure through time and evidence it will easily show otherwise.
This is a terrible blow and my heart goes out to you Brd. Its great that you are confident about the assessment and as you say time and evidence will show them to be wrong.
Its so sad that you can no longer comment on your case... its not obsession that you suffer from but a true and pure love for your son, fighting for the right to be in his life is not obsessive so dont ever think that.
Perhaps you can close your account and reopen with a new username and anonymous avatar and not say anything that would link you to you...if you know what I mean!
I wish you all the best Brd 🙂
I will still be here to support others. From day one with this it was public with my full name and picture. Am I trying to hide anything or slate his mother? No.
I have full respect for her and she was a good friend.
But I am not 'obsessed' with my son. I am fighting for the right to see him because he is my little boy. The biology matters not, the lies and allegations matter not.
I respect the courts decision to stop things for now because with all these allegations flying around they are doing what they feel is best, on the basis that contact restarted very well so at least we know it is not too much of a challenge for my little one to re-restart it.
At the end of the day it is hard and I am very upset by the, quite frankly appalling allegations made against me but without a strand of evidence to back up these allegations I don't see how they can stand up.
So mean time, I'm still doing what I can for my little one but I'm also here to try and help other dads. That's why we are ALL here. None of us are 'obsessed' with our children. We love our children and will [censored] well do whatever it takes to stand by them.
Come on Kenny, you know yourself the allegations that can be made. Sadly that is the sole reason contact has stopped.
But like I said, I can't comment on here because I don't want to appear 'obsessed' (This is a forum where people share their experiences and share help if I'm not mistaken)
It's now just a waiting game and evidence must now be produced.
...Just a thought Brd... I get the feeling that your involvement on the Forum is being questioned and used against you. Dadinfo is part of the Family Matters Institute, and I believe is government funded and also undertakes research projects. If the implication is that this is a "fathers for justice" type website then that can easily be disproved.
For fathers that have financial limitations this website and others like it provide a valuable resource to assist fathers through the court process, and as a result the court benefits from less mistakes and delays, caused by LIPs lack of knowledge of the process.
The Patrons and Trustees of FMI include emminent figures from the world of Law and Politics. If there is an inference that the website is somehow subversive this can so easily be discounted!
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