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Pick your battles regarding the pick ups and drop offs.
With regard to enforcing the order, the judge would likely give her a warning and tell her to comply. You could go for costs if she deliberately refuses the holiday. Costs are rarely awarded in family cases but in this situation they are often awarded.
If it got to 1 or 2 weeks before the holiday and she refused, you can go to court in person for an urgent hearing. It doesn't cost any extra to do that & you can still ask for costs from the mother.
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