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First Have to say that this site has been my salvation, if I get through this I will share my experience to others in my situation.
My son lives with me 3 nights per week so is that shared custody? Would I need someting official saying that I have shared custody or is my statement of arrangements enough.
It states that my son resides with me 3 nights per week.
I am not looking to make any changes to our arrangements I just get frustrated when my ex calls my time with my son access days, as far as I am concerned they are days he lives with me and is in my care.
Everything she says devalues my time with him and it hurts.
Hi there,
I can understand your feeling this way but try not to let it get to you its just word, as long as you are getting your time with your son then you are in a good possition.
It may be annoying and hurtful that your ex calls it "access days" but which ever way you look at it you are seeing him.
GTTS
Yes your right, there are dads on here who are in a far worse position than I am.
Just needed to let it out.
...its probably designed to annoy and upset you so don't rise to it. I bet your son sees it as living with Daddy, he wont ever call it access I'm sure. So just ignore her and her feeble attempt at perceived superiority!
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