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paste from half way down my other topic http://dadtalk.co.uk/forum/27/1842/viewtopic-php
"oh! additional! this is something thats scared me. my solicitor knows the exs parents have threatened to cut her out of the family if she listenes to the courts orders. he then told me that a judge could actually turn around and say it isnt in my daughters best interest that im in her life because of the exs mental problems and therefore her and my baby relies on them, especially now they are in scotland for the first time in 20 years with no friends :s ..."
any thoughts? is it correct that if a grandparent threatens to disown her daughter if she lets (and wants) her daughter to have her dad in her life the courts could grant this ? if so thats pretty messed up and ill be donning my batman suit and chaining myself to middlesbrough coourts carpark exit when im there next so the judge has to wait 20 minutes extra to go home . or maybe superglue myself to the exit.
... seriously, evil grandparents cannot hold this power can they? concidering i stuck by their daughter when she tried to commit suicide, self harmed and came to me when her dad pinned her against a wall telling her hes going to kill himself if she "doesnt stop her bulimia"
i went thru [censored] being there for her . this aint rite
Hi rosield
If a grandparent threatens to disown her daughter a court will likely not view that as anything that will affect you but may have some stern words said to them.
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