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Does anyone know if its possible for CSA / Authorities to stop my ex from lying to CSA about my employment / jobs / earnings . Having been self employed and quite well off i went to work for a charity taking a very low paid full time job after we split and have had nothing but harrassment from my ex who believes i must be working elsewhere earning shedloads even when i got visits off HMRC / CSA etc to prove my case . I am getting miffed after i gave her the house / car / large amount of money when i left and as i still provide for my daughter even though i have nt seen her in 2 years i feel screwed . Surely there must be a law to protect from multiple false allegations made out of spite and to cause me nothing but distress ?
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I don't think there is a great deal you can do - the problem is that there are a lot of people who will do everything possible to avoid paying maintenance and the CSA need the power to be able to check on the financial status of the NRP to combat this. The CSA should be able to check directly with HMRC, perhaps you could ask them to check directly rather than contacting your directly each time.
Well at least i got my sense of humour left ...... still cant believe my ex can lie to official body such as CSA - if i did that to HMRC / Police they would heavy fine me / bang me up for making false statements . Is this really how we are meant to proceed , i find the whole process so one sided i dispair.
Going to lawyers this week , another £140 , to ask [censored] i can do .
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