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Your entitled to half of all school holidays. To be wanting shared care you will certainly be needing to do school drop offs and pick ups for sure.
Do you get 12 nights a month at moment..is it every other weekend and 2 days during week or something at moment
Hi bill
At the moment I have 6 nights in 14
Mon, fri, sat, sun
Weds, thurs
I take the children to school 4 mornings in 10 and pick up from after school club 1 night in 10. Ex always wanted to do pick ups to make sure she had daily contact with them
I can change my working hours to do half of the drop offs and pick ups.
This one from Devo
Hi everyone.. So today was the final day of my fact finding hearing. 44 aleggations against me. The judge went through all of them. I thought I had no chance.. UNTIL, the judge asked my ex to stand. She did, the judge told her shes an unreasonable and unreliable witness and a liar in her court. Every single one of the allegations were struck off. The non molestation order against me, removed immediately, then the judge said to me, I've read your statement of application for a prohibited steps order. In one second she granted it and added a penal notice attached.. She told her if she even attempted to take the children out of the UK, without telling me And applying to court she will be arrested. I have been given immediate access to my children.. I haven't seen my children in 7 months. I was given free unsupervised access. My wonderful Barrister, spoke with me and said do it in a contact centre, to establish the relationship again. The judge said a great idea, and thanked me for being child focused.. The judge even said she wants it on the order that all the allegations are dismissed and that a contact centre to see my children, in no way means I'm a risk. My ex was completely, completely shot down by rhe judge. All her lies and witnesses lies against me, were in the judges words "you Mrs Devo are an unreliable witness and a liar in my court. If you attempt to disrupt Mr Devo contact with the children, you will be arrested for contempt of my court!!! Wow, I actually won the case. Thanks guys, and all those still struggling, keep it going, DON'T GIVE UP..
Good to hear your success story , can you guide me plz how to write reply of allegations made by ex ? As I am representing myself in court
Cheers
The above sucess story was posted on behalf of someone else.
It really depends on the allegations how to reply and if there is any evidence to substantiate what your ex partner is alleging.
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